SEPTEMBER 7, 2026

 “Another characteristic of human nature—perhaps the one that makes us most human—is our capacity to do the unnatural, to transcend and hence transform our own nature.” 

― M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled

PROVERBS 11-12

16Fools show their annoyance at once,

but the prudent overlook an insult. (12:16)

1CORINTHIANS 15:33-58

58Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.

JOURNAL 

One of the most amazing things about being human is our ability to change what seems hardwired within us. Our emotional reactions are incredibly powerful. Many were formed when we were children, shaped by pain, fear, pleasure, rejection, acceptance, and the need to feel safe. Repeated long enough, those responses became automatic. Even decades later, something can happen and suddenly I am not responding as the man I am today, but from patterns created by a child trying to emotionally survive.

Changing those patterns is extraordinarily difficult. I can sometimes feel the old response rising before I have even had time to think about it. Retreat, defend, attack, control, withdraw. The intensity can be startling. Yet this is where Peck’s observation becomes so profound. Human beings possess this strange capacity to recognize our own nature and then choose to act against it. We can feel anger and choose patience. Feel fear and move forward. Feel insulted and overlook it. Feel the desire to retreat into ourselves and instead choose love. We can actually interrupt the pattern.

But the older I get, the harder it is for me to believe that this capacity originates entirely within us. If I am simply the product of my experiences, instincts, conditioning, and biology, where does the power come from to stand outside of those things and say, “No, I will not respond that way anymore”? There seems to be something deeper at work, a Spirit and a power that does not originate within me but can work through me.

Maybe this is part of what Scripture means by transformation. God does not merely make my circumstances easier. He gives me the power to become someone I could not become through instinct alone. Proverbs says the fool immediately reacts to an insult, while the prudent person can let it pass. Paul describes maturity as putting away childish ways. That is not passivity. It may be one of the hardest forms of strength imaginable.

Perhaps this is one of the clearest places I can see God at work in my life. The old response may still appear. The emotion may still be powerful. The wiring may still be there. But it no longer has to determine what I do next. I can stop. I can surrender it. I can choose differently. And every time I do, I participate in something greater than self-improvement. I participate in transformation.

That is why I need God, Scripture, prayer, and His Spirit. Not primarily to make my life comfortable, but to keep transforming me into the man I was created to become. To move beyond instinct, fear, ego, and old wounds and increasingly respond with power, discipline, and above all, love. Maybe that is what it means to put away childish things. And maybe that is why Paul ultimately says that of faith, hope, and love, the greatest is love.

11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

1 CORINTHIANS 13:11-13

SEPTEMBER 6, 2026

 “[To have Faith in Christ] means, of course, trying to do all that He says. There would be no sense in saying you trusted a person if you would not take his advice. Thus if you have really handed yourself over to Him, it must follow that you are trying to obey Him. But trying in a new way, a less worried way. Not doing these things in order to be saved, but because He has begun to save you already. Not hoping to get to Heaven as a reward for your actions, but inevitably wanting to act in a certain way because a first faint gleam of Heaven is already inside you.” 

― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

PROVERBS 9-10

29The way of the Lord is a refuge for the blameless,

but it is the ruin of those who do evil.(10:29)

1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-32

9For I am the least of the apostles and do not even deserve to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God. 10But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them—yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me. 11Whether, then, it is I or they, this is what we preach, and this is what you believed.

JOURNAL 

 Every day is a new day, full of possibility, challenge, and adventure. The question is how I will choose to see it. Will I approach life cautiously, trying to protect myself from failure and discomfort, or will I see each day as an opportunity to discover what God has placed within me and what He might do through me when I am willing to step beyond what is comfortable?

I have been thinking differently about goals. I want to put big things on the calendar. Hard things. Things far enough away that they require preparation, discipline, sacrifice, and growth. But I don't want to see those dates as destinations I am struggling toward so that I can finally arrive and rest. I want them to be targets and tests, something on the horizon that forces me outside the boundaries I have created for myself. There is something powerful about choosing a challenge before life chooses one for me. It teaches me to embrace discomfort rather than continually organizing my life around avoiding it. The goal becomes a reason to train, prepare, learn, sacrifice, and discover that many of the limits I assumed were real were simply the edges of my comfort zone.

And that carries into everything else. If I learn to voluntarily embrace the hard in one area of my life, I become more willing to embrace it everywhere else. Difficult conversations, difficult practices, difficult problems, difficult seasons. Instead of asking, "How can I make this easier?" I can begin asking, "What is this asking me to become?"

But I don't want achievement to become another god. These goals aren't about proving my worth. My worth has already been established by God. That is what makes Paul's words so powerful: "By the grace of God I am what I am," followed almost immediately by, "I worked harder than all of them." Grace didn't make Paul passive. Grace unleashed him. Because his identity was settled, he was free to give everything he had.

That is how I want to live. I surrendered my life to God in Belize in 1989, but surrender has become a decision that must be renewed every morning. Maybe part of that surrender is refusing to waste the abilities, opportunities, and time He has given me. I want to put things on the calendar that scare me a little and require me to become more disciplined today because of something I have chosen to face tomorrow. Not because life begins when I reach that date. Life is happening during the preparation. The target simply gives direction to the struggle.

I don't want comfort to become the destination of my life. I want to keep testing the boundaries of what I think I can do, not to prove that I am enough, but because God's grace tells me I already am. The goal on the calendar isn't ultimately the purpose. The person I am becoming on the way to it is.

 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

PHILIPPIANS 4:6-7

SEPTEMBER 5, 2026

 “God created us for this: to live our lives in a way that makes him look more like the greatness and the beauty and the infinite worth that he really is. This is what it means to be created in the image of God.” 

― John Piper

PROVERBS 7-8

32“Now then, my children, listen to me;

blessed are those who keep my ways.

33Listen to my instruction and be wise;

do not disregard it.

34Blessed are those who listen to me,

watching daily at my doors,

waiting at my doorway.

35For those who find me find life

and receive favor from the Lord.

36But those who fail to find me harm themselves;

all who hate me love death.” (8:32-36)

1 CORINTHIANS 14:21-40

 24But if an unbeliever or an inquirer comes in while everyone is prophesying, they are convicted of sin and are brought under judgment by all, 25as the secrets of their hearts are laid bare. So they will fall down and worship God, exclaiming, “God is really among you!”

JOURNAL 

This life is incredibly short. Whether I live ten more years or fifty, my time here is only a moment in the enormous span of eternity. I have always hated endings, whether it is the end of a vacation, a season, a relationship, or ultimately a life. But endings are woven into existence. Seasons end so new ones can begin, and eventually my time here will end too. I don't say that morbidly. Increasingly, I see it as a call to wake up. I don't want to waste a single minute of the life I have been given.

But I am beginning to understand that not wasting my life does not mean frantically accomplishing more. In fact, that could become another way of wasting it. If God is love, and love is the highest purpose of my life, then the question is how fully I can inhabit the time God gives me and use it to love, grow, create, serve, and help others grow. John Piper's words resonate with me because perhaps that is what being made in God's image ultimately means: living in such a way that my particular life points beyond itself toward the goodness, beauty, power, and love of the One who gave it to me.

That changes my understanding of faith. Faith is not a way to manipulate God into making my life easier. It is relationship with the Creator so that I can become fully alive during the brief time I am here. Proverbs says, “Those who find me find life.” Jesus says not to spend today consumed with tomorrow, but to seek God's Kingdom first. Paul describes a community living in such a way that someone encountering them would say, “God is really among you!” Maybe that is what I want my life to say too. Not because I preached it constantly, but because something about the way I loved, taught, coached, led, created, forgave, encouraged, and lived made God's presence visible.

I have wasted too much time imagining some future version of life where everything is finally right. More money. More success. Fewer problems. Greater certainty. But there will always be another problem, another uncertainty, another ending somewhere ahead. Meanwhile, this is my life. Today is not preparation for my life. Today is my life. The people in front of me are the people I have been given to love. The problems in front of me are opportunities to grow. The gifts I possess are the gifts I have been given to use. This moment is the only place where I can actually meet God.

And I am grateful because my life is not over. I still have today. I can love my family. I can love Marci. I can teach a child, coach a player, encourage someone who is struggling, create something meaningful, solve a problem, forgive someone, make a phone call, listen, laugh, pray, notice beauty, and simply be present. None of those moments are insignificant if they are lived in love.

Maybe “seek first His Kingdom” is ultimately an invitation to stop postponing life. Stop waiting for circumstances to become perfect. Stop allowing fear of tomorrow or regret over yesterday to steal today. Choose God. Own the gifts He gave me. Live the mission. Love the people in front of me. And be completely present for this extraordinary, temporary gift of being alive.

Someday my last day will come. Until then, I don't want to waste my life worrying about when it will end. I want to use every day I am given becoming more capable of love and giving that love away. If I can do that, then however long or short my time here ultimately proves to be, I will have truly lived it.

31So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

MATTHEW 6:31-34

SEPTEMBER 4, 2026

 “Lord, when I feel that what I'm doing is insignificant and unimportant, help me to remember that everything I do is significant and important in your eyes, because you love me and you put me here, and no one else can do what I am doing in exactly the way I do it.” 

― Brennan Manning, Souvenirs of Solitude: Finding Rest in Abba's Embrace

PROVERBS 5-6

20My son, keep your father’s command

and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.

21Bind them always on your heart;

fasten them around your neck.

22When you walk, they will guide you;

when you sleep, they will watch over you;

when you awake, they will speak to you.

23For this command is a lamp,

this teaching is a light,

and correction and instruction

are the way to life (6:20-23)

1 CORINTHIANS 14:1-20

1Follow the way of love and eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit...

JOURNAL 

“Follow the way of love and eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit.” The more I think about this simple statement, the more it seems to bring together so much of what I have been learning. If God is love, then to follow the way of love is ultimately to follow God. And if, as M. Scott Peck describes it, love is the willingness to extend myself for my own spiritual growth or the growth of another, then perhaps this is the true purpose underneath everything else I do.

This also changes how I think about my gifts. I have spent too much time looking at what I lack, comparing myself to others, or measuring myself by outcomes. But God did not create me to be someone else. As Brennan Manning writes, no one else can do exactly what God has placed me here to do in exactly the way I can do it. My personality, experiences, abilities, passions, relationships, successes, failures, and even the things I have learned through suffering have created a life that is uniquely mine. My responsibility is not to wish for another person's gifts, but to recognize, develop, and offer my own.

Maybe that is what it means to “eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit.” It is not seeking gifts so that I can become important. It is asking God to increase my capacity to love and serve through the particular person He created me to be. My teaching, coaching, creating, leading, encouraging, solving problems, being a husband, father, friend, and simply being present with another person can all become expressions of love. The significance is not necessarily in the size of what I accomplish, but in the love with which I do it and the growth it produces in myself and others.

This brings me back to three things God has continually pressed upon my heart: choose my God, own my talent, and live my mission. I will worship something, so choose God. I have been uniquely given certain gifts, so own them rather than compare them. And then use those gifts for their highest purpose, to love, build, restore, and help others grow.

Jesus made the mission incredibly simple: love God with everything I have and love my neighbor as myself. Maybe I have spent too much time making purpose more complicated than it really is. I do not have to control tomorrow or prove the significance of my life through some extraordinary accomplishment. I simply have to trust God, develop what He has placed within me, and use it to love the people in front of me today.

Perhaps that is the new definition of achievement I am beginning to understand. Did I receive God's love? Did I become more fully the person He created me to be? And did I use that person to help someone else grow? If I can live increasingly that way, then even the seemingly insignificant moments become sacred. They become the particular way that God's love moves through the particular life He gave me.

28One of the teachers of the law came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given them a good answer, he asked him, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”

29“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.^e 30Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’^f 31The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’^g There is no commandment greater than these.”

MARK 12:28-31

SEPTEMBER 3, 2026

   “When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time, they can seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall. Think of it--always.” 

― Mahatma Gandhi

PROVERBS 3-4

5Trust in the Lord with all your heart

and lean not on your own understanding;

6in all your ways submit to him,

and he will make your paths straight. (3:5-6)

1 CORINTHIANS 13

1If I speak in the tongues^a of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,^b but do not have love, I gain nothing.

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

JOURNAL 

The more I think about love, the more I realize how radically different it is from the way I have often measured my life. M. Scott Peck defines love as “the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth.” I love that definition because love is not primarily a feeling. It is an act of the will. It is choosing to move beyond comfort, ego, fear, and self-interest for the genuine good and growth of another person, while also continuing to grow myself.

When I put Peck’s definition beside 1 Corinthians 13, I see something even deeper. Paul strips away almost every other measurement of achievement. Knowledge, talent, faith, generosity, sacrifice, accomplishment, even extraordinary spiritual gifts ultimately amount to nothing without love. “If I do not have love, I am nothing.” That completely changes the scoreboard. I have spent so much of my life measuring achievement by outcomes. Did I win? Did I succeed? Did I accomplish what I set out to do? Did people respect what I built? None of those things are necessarily wrong. Excellence, discipline, growth, and achievement matter. But perhaps there is a much greater question: Did I love?

What would my life look like if love became my primary definition of achievement? Maybe the success of a day would not ultimately be determined by how much I accomplished, but by how much I loved while accomplishing it. Did my students become better because I taught them? Did my players become stronger human beings because I coached them? Did my family feel valued because I was present? Did the people around me grow because I encouraged, challenged, forgave, listened, served, and believed in them? And through all of it, did I become more patient, courageous, truthful, disciplined, and loving myself?

The more I consider Peck’s definition, the more it sounds like God. Scripture does not merely say that God has love. It says that God is love. God creates, nurtures, teaches, disciplines, forgives, gives freedom, and continually calls us toward growth. Maybe that is why Proverbs tells me to trust Him rather than my own understanding. God’s love is concerned with something much greater than my immediate comfort or the particular outcome I think I need.

This changes surrender for me. Trusting God does not mean becoming passive. I can work, prepare, compete, teach, coach, create, solve problems, and pursue excellence. But those things no longer have to determine my worth. Instead, they become opportunities to love. Achievement becomes the vehicle rather than the destination. The question becomes not simply, What did I accomplish? but What did I love into existence?

Maybe that is the highest achievement of a human life: learning to love. If God truly is love, then every time my capacity to love expands, I am becoming more like Him. Perhaps the purpose underneath every other purpose is simply to receive God’s love so completely that I become increasingly capable of giving it away. At the end of each day, maybe the scoreboard can become beautifully simple: Did I love? Did I help someone grow? Did I become more capable of love myself? If the answer is yes, then regardless of the outcome, something eternal was accomplished.

3Let love and faithfulness never leave you;

bind them around your neck,

write them on the tablet of your heart.

4Then you will win favor and a good name

in the sight of God and man.

- Proverbs 3:3-4