“The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone, but the things you do for others remain as your legacy.”
PROVERBS 23-24
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Kalu Ndukwe Kalu said that the things I do for myself will disappear when I am gone, but what I do for others remains as my legacy. Maybe the important realization is that legacy is not something I leave behind someday. I am creating it right now, in thousands of seemingly insignificant moments. Every conversation, every task, every problem, every opportunity to work, every person who crosses my path is an opportunity to live. And because these moments will never come again, they are precious.
Proverbs paints the picture of a vineyard slowly being overtaken by weeds. What strikes me is that it did not happen all at once. It happened through neglect. “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands.” Maybe one of the greatest dangers in life is not some catastrophic failure, but simply failing to recognize the value of what is right in front of me. Waiting for something better. Wishing away the difficult parts. Rushing through work. Resenting problems. Living mentally in tomorrow while today quietly disappears.
But what if I could see it differently? What if the vineyard itself is the gift? The weeds that need pulling, the wall that needs repairing, the ground that needs tending. Those things are not keeping me from life. They are life. The work is precious because I am here to do it. The problem is precious because I have been given an opportunity to engage it. The conversation is precious because this exact moment with this person will never exist again.
Paul says that we are Christ’s ambassadors, “as though God were making his appeal through us.” That gives extraordinary significance to ordinary moments. God can make His appeal through the way I teach a student, coach a player, speak to my family, respond to frustration, solve a problem, encourage someone, or simply give another person my complete attention. There does not have to be an audience. There does not have to be recognition. There only has to be a willingness to be fully present and allow Christ to live through me.
Galatians 2:20 takes it even deeper: “I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.” Surrender, then, is not withdrawing from life. It is entering life more completely. It is surrendering my obsession with outcomes, tomorrow, comfort, and myself so that I can actually inhabit the moment God has given me.
That may be the secret to an amazing life. Not accumulating extraordinary experiences, but developing the eyes to recognize how extraordinary ordinary life already is. The hard practice. The early morning. The unfinished work. The person who needs me. The unexpected problem. The quiet drive home. The meal around a table. The laughter. The disappointment. Even the struggle. All of it says the same thing: I am alive, God is here, and I have another opportunity to love.
Someday there will be no more vineyards for me to tend, no more problems to solve, no more practices to coach, no more conversations to have, no more people to serve. That makes these things precious now.
So I don't want to merely get through today. I want to receive it. I want to work it, love through it, struggle through it, laugh through it, and give myself to it. I want to see every moment as another opportunity for Christ to live through me.
GALATIANS 2:20