“When anything in life is an absolute requirement for your happiness and self-worth, it is essentially an ‘idol,’ something you are actually worshiping. When such a thing is threatened, your anger is absolute. Your anger is actually the way the idol keeps you in its service, in its chains. Therefore if you find that, despite all the efforts to forgive, your anger and bitterness cannot subside, you may need to look deeper and ask, ‘What am I defending? What is so important that I cannot live without?’
― Timothy J. Keller, Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope that Matters
ISAIAH 45-47
JOURNAL
The more I understand what it means to be in tune with God, the more I recognize that the condition of my heart and mind never affects me alone. Whether I am in tune with God or not, the consequences extend to everyone around me. There is no escaping that reality. Every decision, every interaction, and every responsibility is influenced by the spirit from which I am living.
When I am in tune with God, my thoughts and actions flow from a place of love, discipline, and a desire to grow. I become more intentional in how I live and more aware of the people around me. I listen to understand rather than simply respond. I care for my health because I recognize that my body and energy are gifts entrusted to me. I approach my responsibilities with purpose, seeking to develop and use what God has given me in service to others. My focus shifts from what I can gain to what I can give.
When I am out of tune with God, that perspective begins to change. Fear and selfishness gradually influence my thinking, and immediate gratification becomes more appealing than the discipline required for lasting growth. I become more concerned with my comfort, my desires, and protecting my own interests. The consequences reach beyond me because the way I live inevitably influences the people who depend on me, work alongside me, and share their lives with me.
What strikes me is how often this plays out in the smallest decisions. It is found in the attention I give someone who is speaking, the care I take with my health, the effort I bring to my work, and the way I steward my time and abilities. These moments can seem insignificant, but collectively they shape the person I become and the influence I have on others. The gifts God has entrusted to me are not simply for my own benefit. They carry a responsibility to cultivate them so they can become a source of strength, encouragement, and love for others.
The challenge is that what seems so clear when I am in tune with God can become remarkably murky when I am not. Being out of tune distorts my perspective. I begin to rationalize decisions that serve immediate desires while losing sight of their eventual consequences. I can convince myself that a small compromise does not matter or that neglecting a responsibility affects no one but me. Yet the very thinking I am relying upon has been influenced by the fear and selfishness I have allowed to take hold.
This is why consistently seeking God through Scripture, prayer, and surrender is so essential. His truth restores my perspective and exposes the difference between what I desire in the moment and what ultimately produces life. Colossians describes the transformation of putting off the old self and being renewed in the knowledge of our Creator. The more I come to know God, the more I recognize His wisdom in the way I should live. His love begins to shape my motives, His power gives me courage to act, and His discipline enables me to pursue what is good beyond the desires of the moment.
Ultimately, being in tune with God is not simply about finding personal peace or making better decisions for myself. It is about becoming the person He created me to be so that His spirit can flow through me into the lives of others. Every day, in ways both small and significant, I am influencing the people around me. The question is whether that influence is flowing from fear and selfishness or from the power, love, and discipline of God. That is why getting in tune with Him each day matters so much. My life never affects only me.
MATTHEW 5:43-48